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Love

"I have an everyday religion that works for me. Love yourself first, and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world."

- Lucille Ball

The missing piece of the puzzle

It is the one thing that we are all looking for.

Some people have the joy of filling that hole, only to find later the piece no longer fits - something has changed???

The only person that will ever be able to fill that piece of the puzzle is you. If you are only looking for love outside of yourself, you will never ever be truly satisfied.

We have forgotten how to love ourselves. We live in a society that rewards self-sacrifice. As noble as it sounds, doing stuff for others, when it is harming yourself will never get you anywhere.

Sure, helping others does make you feel good about yourself and it is rewarding. Unfortunately, putting other people first can sometimes mean harming or denying a part of yourself.

It is time for each of us to take responsibility for our own lives.

Allowing yourself to fall in love, to really fall in love, means loving yourself. This means honouring your whole self – mind, body and soul.

When these three are in harmony, everything else, including the love that you desire from others, will naturally and easily fall into place.

Mind

Think loving thoughts, affirmations
Think positive thoughts, look for the silver lining, everything happens for a reason
Watch uplifting & inspiring film clips
Listen to uplifting songs
Read mind expanding books
Listen to audio books that teach you how to be successful, prosperous, happy and confident
Meditate

Body

Exercise everyday, even if it is only for 10 minutes
Spend time in nature
Take an Epsom salt bath once a month
Drink lots of clean water
Drink herbal tea
Declutter your living space and remove stagnant energy
Honour your sense of smell with aromatherapy candles and oils
Listen to your body, especially if you keep getting sick, if you don’t know what it is saying go to a naturopath, dietician or docto

Soul

Harm no one and treat others how you want to be treated (unless doing that is harming yourself)
Follow your passion (even if someone has told you not to)
Do what you love and be the kind of person that you can love
Imagine and visualise your ideal life, remind yourself of the person you were born to be, the person you can be
Listen to and follow your intuition, this is what it really means to be true to yourself
Connect with and listen to your inner child

“If you have ever felt such tremendous enthusiasm and desire for something that you would gladly spend all your waking hours working on it, that you would happily do without pay, then you have found your passion.”

- Sharon Cook & Graciela Sholander

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